During one visit, no different in most respects than my other daily visits to my dad who lived in a nearby nursing home, he looked at me with total clarity, and said, "I think I make up all of these problems because I need something to do." The man speaking was my dad. His eyes and the whole look of his face were like dad used to be, before his dementia. His beautiful blue eyes looked softly at me rather than rolling in their sockets. The faded look I'd grown used to was gone. The moment was strange and mystical.
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Great article. I worked at a senior living community for individuals with dementia. Some residents had moments such as your Dads. It was a special glimpse into their lives and something I treasure. Thank you for sharing your experiences!
Posted by: Caring for Aging Parents | Friday, July 02, 2010 at 09:51 PM