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Nursinghome3Dear Carol: My parents were married for 56 years before Mom died. Dad eventually moved into assisted living. His mind is good, though he had a stroke years back so he uses a cane. He can still drive. My sister works part time, yet Dad is at her house every day from breakfast until evening. I live 50 miles away, but help out on weekends. I’m afraid that, because of Dad's grief, we’ve overdone the caregiving. We’ve talked with Dad, but he doesn’t see the problem. How do we convince him that we love seeing him but he needs to take advantage of his new home and give us some space? – Steve

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