You'll find a good, insightful article on the PsychCentral site titled "Health System Creates Caregiver Stress."
If any of your readers disagree with the what the title is saying, I'd love to hear from you. Okay - dead silence. I'd love to hear from you anyway.
This article, by PsycCentral's New Editor and reviewed by John M. Grohol, Psy.D. begins:
"The stress associated with being a primary caregiver, whether for a child and/or a parent, is a topic gaining deserved attention. In fact, finding the right healthcare for a child or loved one can leave you feeling like you need a visit to the doctor."
Take some time to read this. You'll relate.