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Family Caregivers Finally Being Recognized as a Critical Component of Wellness

Acceptance Of Couple's Reality May Need to Precede the Ability To Feel Gratitude 


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DEAR CAROL: My wife has had a stroke that’s left her mostly paralyzed on one side. She can’t speak well and she cries often. We’re in our 70s and have spent our lives as active church people. In fact, we’ve done our share of visiting hospitals and nursing homes representing the church. We’ve told people that what they are facing is their reality and that we will pray for them. We’ve told them to be grateful for what they have. Now, the shoe is on the other foot. I’m having a difficult time feeling grateful for anything at all. Instead, I feel angry, exhausted, frustrated and frightened. How could I have been such a hypocrite all of these years? – Roger

Continue reading on Inforum to learn more about the importance of acceptance of painful realities to our ability to feel grateful for what we have:

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