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Siblings Who Feel Shut Out of Caregiving: Yes, It Happens

Arguing_afif-kusuma-mv38TB_Ljj8-unsplash-small  Photo credit Alif Kusuma

 Even the most well-prepared caregiver needs assistance and reinforcements from time to time. If one’s siblings cannot be physically present, they should be able to help financially, with paperwork or in some other remote capacity. They should do something, but they often don’t. Many times, it’s because siblings just don’t want to be bothered. They assume that the brother or sister who’s closest has things under control, and they don’t have a clue about how much time, effort, and sacrifice are involved in caregiving.

While MIA siblings are the overwhelming norm, some families have very different experiences. This article offers a glimpse into another perspective on caregiving: that oft maligned long-distance siblings may actually be excluded by primary caregivers.

Continue reading on Agingcare for discussion about why some caregivers would (sometimes legitimately, other times not) rather go it alone:

Minding Our Elders: Caregivers Share Their Personal Stories. “I hold onto your book as a life preserver and am reading it slowly on purpose...I don't want it to end.” ...Craig William Dayton, Film Composer

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